The life of a single Lady

“Now, i have no fear of being alone with myself. i just realized that i don’t need a boyfriend to be completely happy with my life.”

For the past two years, ten months and two days, i have been living my life with that saying. Now, i’m living my life again the same way as it was before. I eat when i’m hungry, i drink when i’m thirsty, and i flirt when i feel like flirting.

I admit, feeling all alone at first is so absurd, but when you manage to overcome it, you won’t have to think of being alone anymore. If you’ve got a friend, you will never feel that you’re totaly dumped, for a friend is someone who is there for you when he’d rather be somewhere else. Friends are there to help you put back all the pieces that was shattered. they help you cry out all the pain but they also help you smile until all the aches are gone, and I’m so lucky that at least, i’ve got some of what you call “friends”.

The life of a woman doesn’t only revolve around a guy. there are so many things that can make a woman happy, even if he’s not with a guy. She can eat many chocolates as many as she can, she can also but the whole shopping mall for a day for as long as her purse allows her to. She can call her friends to go to her house and have a pillow fight all night from dawn till dusk. She can travel the whole world and find better and sweet men whenever she wants to, and lastly, she can go to the top of the mountain and scream out all the things that she longed to say but never ever have said it before, or worst, she can sleep with a guy she likes and keep the baby to her without even having a plan to get married with the guy. and there she would find the real essence of being a woman, and the best thing that can make a woman happy- to be a mother.

To all single ladies out there who are still in “little too not over him” stage, all I can say to you guys is LET GO!. because if they really are into you, they shoud’ve called you the night they let you go and begged you to come back again. Do not dwell in the past, but do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment and you’ll realize how wonderful life can be when you’re a single.